Happy Friyay My Darlings!
OMG, I am BEYOND elated that this week is almost over!!!! There were times I was sure I wouldn’t make it through! But I’m here now! “WON’T HE DO IT?” ???
Okay so, today I have a question: what is it that certain people find so alluring about the unavailable”?
To help explain where I am coming from with this, please see the scenarios below:
Scenario #1 – Girl spots a handsome dude at the gym
Girl: You must work out a lot, you have a beautiful body
Guy: Thank you, my fiancé seems to think so too
Girl: Well you’re not married yet… How about we work out together? I could really use some help with my form ?
Scenario #2 – Whatsapp chat
Guy: Are you dating anyone?
Girl: I’m talking to someone
Guy: Talk to me as well
Guy: I’m serious
Girl: I’m not too good at splitting my attention
Guy: Give me a chance. I can teach you ?
Scenario #3 – Group outing
Guy: Are you single?
Girl: Well, I’m talking to someone
Guy: How long has that been going on?
Girl: Since April
Guy: April? And it’s November!!!
*dude bursts into uncontrollable laughter with his friend, having the girl feeling type of way*
Guy: I’m sorry to tell you this but if he hasn’t made things official by now, he won’t. You’re gorgeous and I can tell you’re nice and sweet as well. So he’s keeping you close because he sees that. You shouldn’t put all your eggs in one basket anyway. We should grab drinks sometime. ?
Maybe it’s the fact that all approachees in the above scenarios mentioned they were unavailable but it didn’t seem to faze the approachers. It may even be the fact all three situations happened around the same time to different people, at different parts of the world. But for some reason, these stories bothered me!!!! Like seriously
WHAT IS GOING ON???
When I made up my mind to write about this, was building the case against men. I’m sorry my fellas, but all of the stories I heard were around y’all. Then I heard the story about the engaged man at the gym and became weak?
I started out by stating I have one question, but honestly, now I have several:
Why didn’t the mention of someone else automatically send these approachers running? Why would someone tell you not to put all your eggs in one basket when it isn’t his or her favor?? What is wrong with our generation today???? Do people even value relationships anymore???? And why is it so cold in New York???
As always, I’d love you hear what you all think.
Until next week, all the best!
The Wawa New-Yorker